For several years I have told my family we would not be getting a dog. I kept almost talking myself into it and then after I read up on having a puppy, talked myself out of it. It all sounded too familiar....sleepless nights, crying, doctor visits, feedings, cleaning up poop...there's a reason we didn't have anymore kids! I also kept looking at them and the prices just kept going UP! Ridiculous prices confirmed we could not afford a dog.
Then I found a post for goldendoodles in Tooele! Just a few miles from where we lived. The price was lower and they had 10 puppies!! We had just refinanced our home to get a lower interest rate and we pulled out some money for home renovations. If there ever was a time, now was the time. I feel like the stars aligned. We loaded up the kids and went to LOOK at puppies.
Well you can't just look at puppies...you have to hold them and play with them and snuggle them and oh my heck they were cute! I was set on a golden one but one little black girl climbed up on Mollie and snuggled right into her. The girls were all squeeling and Oooohing and ahhhhing....And then there was Carter. He stood with his nose in the corner and wouldn't even LOOK at the dog. He did not want her and he told me he would sell her if I bought one. After a long talk with him and telling him we would all be praying for his heart to be softened he told me a few days later that he would give the dog a chance.
Well, I guess the dog chose us because a few weeks later on Sept. 15 when she was old enough to come home, Jilly Bean joined our family.
She had SO much attention and was constantly cuddled. The night we picked her up I had to go to work but the kids and Chad were all happy to get to play with her.
Oh this pic of Jilly and Chad just makes me so happy! Look at that cute face! And the smile on my hubbys face! We all were smitten!
When I got home the family was still outside playing with her. So I told them it was my turn to play.
And here's Carters face showing how he really feels about the dog. We've currently had her 3 months and he still won't touch her! But he does giggle when she does silly things and is slowly warming up to her.
And I originally said no animals on the couch but that didn't last. However we did get a new couch and I'm still trying to enforce that one for the sake of new furniture!
Rylee loves petting her and is always by her side
And Jilly loves soccer! Who knew! She loves to chase the ball when the kids kick it around the yard.
And one evening this is where she chose to fall asleep! On my face!
Bri is ALWAYS holding her and I keep telling her that soon she will be too big to hold her!
And look at this pretty pic of this baby! One of the first that I took of her! Getting a black dogs face is slightly hard but the lighting here was perfect!
Within just a few weeks of having her, we took her on her first road trip to grandmas for her birthday! She did really great and just layed down below me or sat on my lap. She did so great!
Sometimes she would get brave and peek out the window .She's kinda a fraidy cat.
Grandma isn't a pet person but she let Jilly snuggle up to her and lick all her fingers and sit in her chair. Thanks mom.
She did good there but you could just tell she was a little uncomfortable being out of her element. Once we were back home though, she found all her favorite spots to lay and enjoyed them.
Under Rylee's chair is probably her favorite place. I'm sure theres a few snacks under there.

For our first puppy, we've learned a few lessons but for the most part she is amazing! She only whined the first night in her kennel but after that she did just fine. She had very few accidents in the house and usually only when I'm too busy to remember to take her out or I'm not home. She is kennel trained and mostly potty trained and learning tricks and commands so quickly! She doesn't chew things up but she does love to steal socks or wrappers and run off with them. She did chew up our trampoline mat but I wasn't too upset because it needed to be thrown away anyway. She is such a good dog and has been a beautiful addition to our family. Yes its like a newborn for the most part, but the difference is that I can put her in her kennel any time and walk away. She doesn't go to stores with me or keep me up at night and that is a BIG difference. The kids have had to learn some self control and not smother her. And she's taught all of us a little more responsibility. Welcome to the fam Jilly bean.
Also just for the record, she was born July 21, 2020. And here are her mom and dad and one of the first pictures her breeder sent us after we decided we wanted her! So tiny!!!